LGBTQIA+ Terminology 101: Understanding the Basics for Better Allyship

Oct 30

The LGBTQ+ community is a beautifully diverse tapestry of identities, each with its own unique meaning and significance. In this exploration, we'll explore basic LGBTQ+ terminology and understand its profound importance. In the South especially, attacks on the LGBTQ+ community have been on the rise. One of the easiest ways to show allyship is to educate yourself on basic terminology and use it. We’re all capable of growing and learning.

Celebrating Identity Diversity

The acronym “LGBTQ+” is an umbrella term that encompasses a wide array of identities. Let's take a closer look at some of them:

Lesbian: Women who are romantically and/or sexually attracted to other women.
Gay: Men who are romantically and/or sexually attracted to other men. (can also be am umbrella term incorporating other queer identities regardless of gender)
Bisexual: Individuals attracted to more than one gender.
Transgender: People whose gender identity differs from their assigned sex at birth.
Queer: An inclusive term for non-heteronormative identities.
Intersex: Individuals born with physical sex characteristics that diverge from binary sex.
Asexual: People who experience little or no sexual attraction.
+ (Plus): Represents the diversity of identities not explicitly listed here (and there are so many of them).

A Spectrum of Gender

Gender is a complex and multifaceted aspect of LGBTQ+ identities. Key terms include:

Cisgender: People whose gender identity aligns with the sex they were assigned at birth.
Gender Identity: A held sense of one's own gender.
Gender Expression: How a person outwardly presents gender.
Non-Binary: A gender identity that doesn't fit within the traditional male-female binary.

The Importance of Pronouns

Respecting and using the right pronouns is vital. Here are some common pronouns:

She/Her
He/Him
They/Them

Using the correct pronouns is a simple yet powerful way to show support for LGBTQ+ individuals. Sharing your pronouns gives others permission to do so if they feel comfortable and can help queer folks feel safe. When someone tells you their pronouns, believe and respect them, and use their pronouns correctly. If you find yourself accidentally using the incorrect pronouns for someone, correct yourself and move on. Gently correcting others when they make a mistake can be an easy way to show allyship.

Creating Inclusive Spaces

The coming-out process can be an emotional and challenging journey. Providing a safe, non-judgmental space is crucial:

Coming Out: Sharing one's LGBTQ+ identity with others.
Safe Space: A welcoming and accepting environment where people can express their true selves.

A More Welcoming World

Understanding these diverse LGBTQ+ terms helps build empathy and inclusivity. By creating an open-minded and accepting world, we empower everyone to explore their identities, relationships, and mental health. Embracing diversity and celebrating LGBTQ+ identities is a positive step forward in making our world a more inclusive place, especially in the face of rising attacks against the LGBTQ+ community. Decatur and the surrounding Atlanta areas tend to be much more diverse, open, and tolerant spaces in Georgia, but it’s important to remember that being a vocal ally is impactful.

As we navigate the rich tapestry of LGBTQ+ identities and terminology, we celebrate the uniqueness of every individual. If you have questions or want to learn more about therapy to support yourself or support loved ones on their identity journey, feel free to reach out. Together, we can make our world a more understanding and compassionate place for all.